One less bell to answer? 3 steps to get back your ex quickly.

This is from the late 70s in my radio days. I was a music director for radio station WBLS-FM in New York City and we always had celebrity visitors.

Seen here - Me, Wanda Ramos, Barbara Harris, (promotional representative from Atlantic Records), Billy Davis and Marilyn McCoo.

Yeah, I know those glasses!

Before they went on their own, Marilyn and Billy were members of The Fifth Dimension a group from Los Angeles that enjoyed such great hits like "Up Up and Away", "Aquarius/Let the Sunshine In", Stone Soul Picnic", "Wedding Bell Blues" and the Burt Bacharach monster hit "ONE LESS BELL TO ANSWER".

One Less Bell to Answer? 3 Steps to Get Back With Your Ex FAST!

Being alone is no fun. The pain of losing a love one can be devastating and sometimes last a lifetime. Do not let your foolish pride get in the way of a terrific romance. Take these three steps to get your ex back FAST!

Building a lasting relationship takes work and effort to keep things together and running smoothly. If you find yourself singing the blues and feeling the pain of lost love, then take a stand and get your ex back FAST!

It is no reason the song "One Less Bell to Answer" was such a big hit. It tells the story of the pain of woman who sits and waits for her ex lover to return. i end each day the way i start out, crying my heart out...that is a pain that everyone can relate to when you are carrying a broken heart.

If you have a recently broken up, do not waste time. Take action to get your ex back FAST. Use these three steps to make up with your ex and stop the pain of your broken heart.

1. Say you are sorry. Sounds simple enough, but most people do not want to admit they are wrong about anything. Sorry is a hard word to say and mean. Does it really matter who is right or wrong when both of you are hurting? Take an outside view of your breakup fight and look hard for the things that brought you two to that state. I am sure you will find that it really was not that important to ruin what you had between you. Just say you are sorry.

2. Ask for a second chance. Convince your ex that you will not make the same mistakes and that you are hurting without them. Tell them you want to start again and that this time it will be better than before. Let them know you have found the reasons why you fought and have corrected them.

3. Be completely honest. It is time to put your heart on the table. Be honest with yourself first and make sure you are doing this for the right reason-love. If you have any doubt, then let it go and be honest about it. Getting your ex back should mean everything to you so much so, that you should hold nothing back and expose all your secrets and flaws to be loved just for who you are as is. Honesty is the true glue that holds relationships together for a lifetime!

Getting back with your ex will ease your pain and lift your heart to new heights for now you are working from a completely different state. Your honesty and sincerity will show and your ex will see the difference and realize all the wonderful qualities that you have that made them fall in love with you in the first place.

Should I Get Back with My Unemployed Ex Boyfriend? Before You Do, Consider This

In this economic climate more couples are facing financial hardships and tensions in their relationships. Budgets are being stressed and many are going without basic creature comforts. If your ex boyfriend has lost his job, is this a good time to take him back? Here are some guidelines to help you get through these times with your romance still in place.

Have you recently broken up with your boyfriend and now you are regretting a hasty decision? If your fight was about money, you should take a look at how you got to this particular situation. Money matters can be a very private thing for some, but once you get deeper into a relationship, it should be addressed honestly.

Did you have a financial plan in place? Keeping track of money and maintaining a budget is each ones responsibility. If your ex boyfriend saved for a rainy day, he may be more relaxed and open to seeing you again. However, if he lived pay check to pay check, this could be a big issue. If your ex was always switching jobs and had no real direction, then it is no surprise that he is now still unemployed and a risk. Most careers demand constant instruction and upgrades. If your ex was struggling to go to school and hold down simple jobs to make ends meet, then you need to see beyond his present state and give him support and encouragement.


Can I Afford My Ex Boyfriend? If you are the only one working, you may be tempted to take in your ex and lend a hand. But can you really afford another mouth to feed or are you using your support to bring him back? Is he the type to help around the house and fill in when you are at the job? Does he make an effort to find ways to save or is he freely spending your money? Financial conflict is the biggest issue that breaks up a relationship. You need to be up front with your money expectations of your ex before you reunite with him. A financial plan, though temporary is in order to avoid major arguments and fights in the future.


Can You Give It Up? You may have enjoyed a lavish lifestyle with your ex boyfriend before he lost his job, are you ready to change? Special vacations, frequently dinning with friends and romantic gifts may not be in your new agenda. You will have to decide to focus your priorities on building a solid relationship based on basic values. It is the perfect time to spend more quality time together, walking, cooking, remodeling and new hobbies are a great way to get to now one another without distractions from the outside world. Share time with friends at home with activities that bond like cards and board games.

Once you go over these areas, you may find that your ex boyfriend has some true values that you are still attracted to. Any financial climate can change in an instant. If you feel that your ex is just going through a bum deal, this could be the perfect time to show him just how much you love him and believe in him as a success. This show of encouragement could be just what your ex needs to get through these economic times. Getting through this together is a great way to build a solid relationship that will last forever.