Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Do you want a Love Do Over? Tips on getting back your ex Latin boyfriend
First if you have recently broken up, stop trying to call him or see him. Give yourself some space and time between each other. Latin men can be very dramatic and he may need some time to calm down from his emotions. You should take this time to figure out why you broke up and how you can prevent the situation in the future. There may be some serious changes that need to take place inside you. You cannot change others, but you can change yourself and once that happens everything around you is different.
Latin men love romance. Begging and pleading will only drive him away. Take baby steps to get near him again. You may want to make his favorite meal and leave it at his office for his lunch. I used this tactic to say I’m sorry for a huge fight. You ex boyfriend will not like to be pressured. This is a simple ice breaker and should get you at least a thank you phone call from him. Once you open the lines of communication you can begin to build your relationship back with your ex Latin boyfriend.
Now is not the time to show off your independence. Latin men are old fashioned, though they may not show it. They hold in high regard the traditions from those that raised them like a mother or grandmother. These women came from a strict generation that believed the woman’s place is in the home. Those values among others are still in the hearts and minds of these men and they like to know where their woman is at all times. Going out with the girls to all the hot spots will not sit well with your ex boyfriend. He may take it as a sign you want to move on right away. Instead spend this time to improve yourself with a new hobby or activity. This will give you self confidence that will show and impress him of how mature you are.
Latin men are very possessive and prone to be jealous at the slightest thing. Making yourself overly attractive with too much make up or a provocative outfit is not the way to go. He will think you were waiting to leave him to come out of your shell. Do not try to make him jealous by dating other men. This is a real deal breaker. He will feel that you are ready for a new romance and will turn away.
Remember the qualities that he fell in love with are still in you. He just needs a reminder of how great you are and how happy he was with you. Once you start talking again, take your time and treat it like a new romance. Soon you will be back with your ex Latin boyfriend only this time stronger and better than before. Get the guide that has helped so many the Magic of Making Up.
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
3 Ways to Charm the Latin Man. Or a Magic Way to Get Your Ex Latin Boyfriend Back!
Got your sights set on a Latin man, or do you want to get your ex Latin boyfriend back. Do you miss that excitement you see in his eyes and that romantic talk on the phone. No one does it better than the Latin Man to totally take your heart a way with just a shot of his warm smile.
Soft, wavy dark hair is one of his many irresistible charms that keep you attracted to this handsome thing, but does it all come with a price? With just a little help from the Magic of Making Up you can learn the steps to build a great relationship that last without the costly mistakes of most couples.
You can start right now to get some of that spice in your life by trying out the following three tips to charm your Latin Man.
First: Do you cook? Yes the way to a man's heart is through his stomach and more so with the romantic Latin man. If you have an idea of your ex boyfriend's favorite dish, it will impress him that you are willing to learn to make it for him. If you have a Hispanic or Caribbean friend, ask for a recipe that is simple to make and get them to show you how to make it as authentic as you can. Of course you can get plenty of Spanish recipes on the internet. I always include in my meals white rice and add a meat or fish (usually in tomato sauce) and one vegetable. Just knowing how to make great white rice is a milestone in Spanish cooking. Once you are ready, you can causally invite your ex boyfriend back over to taste the new dish. I once used this tip to break the ice with my boyfriend after a causal fight. I called his office and told him I would just leave it at the front desk at his job for his lunch. It worked nicely for forgiveness.
Second: Can you dance? Nothing brings out the passion in the Latin Man than some time sweating it out on the dance floor. If this is you first date after a break up, you could surprise your Latin lover by taking him to a Salsa club and showing him your new steps. It's not hard to learn and there are plenty of videos on the internet and dance classes around that could put you on top of your rhythm in no time. Going dancing is a great way to share new romance again. I always have a great time dancing all the fast songs with lots of turns and hip shaking, but its that slow dance that makes the difference at the end of the night. Your ex boyfriend will begin to wonder how could he even think of letting you go.
Third: Be a lady. That sexy outfit may look great and I'm sure he'll love it, but not out in the street. Latin men hold in high regard their mothers or grandmothers that raised them. Although they may be quite the modern man, these silent values are still there in their thoughts and actions. Their mothers were only one generation away from very strict up bring and rules regarding women. This can be a challenge for the independent woman who has been enjoying her freedom and doing everything around the house,(pssss..let him open the wine), relax and let a man do it for a while.
If you have just met that Hot Latin Man these few steps can get you started to be above the average date. Learning new things in any area or new culture is a great investment in yourself making you ready for any future relationships. If you have recently broken up with your ex boyfriend, impress him with doing one of these tips from above if you may not have done them before. You will also find a new confidence in yourself that will impress him and bring you closer together.
I have plenty of sound advice from this simple book to help me keep on track with my relationship. Find out how others have found a way back to the love of their lives in the Magic Of Making Up by T"Dub" Jackson. A Simple step by step guide to bring you back together.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Start to win back your ex boyfriend with these tips!
If you have recently broken up with your Latin boyfriend, you will have to come up with a magical plan to deal with his unique personality to get your ex boyfriend back.
Don't call his mother. If you have already met any member of his family - sister, brother or close uncle, do not call them and wine. Latin men do not like "chismes" (gossip) among his family. He would then have to explain his position on the matter to everyone.
Don't give him back his gifts. Latin men are very sensitive. He will feel you are trying to hurt him and never return.
Give yourself sometime between you and your ex Latin boyfriend. If one incident caused the breakup, think of how you could have done it differently so as to avoid danger zones in the future.
Here's to second chances.
Wanda Ramos