Start to win back your ex boyfriend with these tips!

If you have recently broken up with your Latin boyfriend, you will have to come up with a magical plan to deal with his unique personality to get your ex boyfriend back.

That extreme passion and romance you have enjoyed from your Latino boyfriend does come with a price. By now you must know he loves his family and home, but don't ask him when he is coming back. Loves to eat and sometimes cooks, but don't ask him what time he wants dinner. He must always be in control. That’s the fine MACHO in him. One of the many charms you feel in love with!

The Latin man is quite sensitive and will show you the desires of his heart. But that same obsession can work against you if you lose control and don't plan ahead. His big, open generous heart can close quickly if he feels trapped and cornered. This would not be the time to show your independence or change your appearance. He may feel you are ready to move on.

Remember, Latin men are close to their mothers. And mothers were little girls once who were adored by their fathers who were raised and spoiled by their mothers. It is not hard to see that today we are really only a few generations away from a very traditional strict family structure. The woman’s place is in the home.

With Latin men religion also plays an important part in marriage and relationship values. Although they may not all be visibly spiritually active, the "rules" still apply to their women. They expect you to be home when they call. Not out with the girls roaming the streets.

That irresistible Latin charm and smile will melt your heart and keep you waiting for more. He loves his women strong, independent and beautiful. He also likes to keep you all to himself. If you are serious and have decided “I want my Latin lover back,” now is not the time to wear a sexy new outfit in front of his friends.

Dealing with the Latin ego will take some magic. Their emotions are strong so you will have to think wisely if you want your Latin lover back. Be honest about your feelings and he is the one, go for it. Getting your ex boyfriend back can be done with a step back and some real soul searching. You can start right now. Begin by stop calling or following him around. Here are some prime guidelines to get you on the right path.

First of all avoid these costly mistakes with a Latin man.

Don't call his mother. If you have already met any member of his family - sister, brother or close uncle, do not call them and wine. Latin men do not like "chismes" (gossip) among his family. He would then have to explain his position on the matter to everyone.

Don't call his male friends. He may assume you are flirting and using your breakup to get sympathy. Latin men want privacy when it comes to managing their love affairs.

Don't touch his things. If he left stuff at your house, leave it just where it is. Latin men can be high maintenance. This is the perfect time for you to catch up on household chores. Show him you respect your home and his things.

Don't try to make him jealous. Your Latin lover man may have called it quits, but you are still his until he says so. Seeing you with another guy can be a real deal breaker. Your love is supposed to be special remember!

Don't call his ex. Let's face it we all have baggage. Even if you think his ex is on your side, they cannot be trusted. Don't call his ex, or the ex ex or his baby's mother.

Don't give him back his gifts. Latin men are very sensitive. He will feel you are trying to hurt him and never return.

Give yourself sometime between you and your ex Latin boyfriend. If one incident caused the breakup, think of how you could have done it differently so as to avoid danger zones in the future.

Your Latin man will see you are serious about your relationship with him. Your strength and discipline will make him trust you and help get your ex back. Latin men place loyalty up high as a quality in a woman. Your ex will see all the wonderful things he fell in love with you in the first place and come back like magic.

So get ready and be strong. Start a game plan. You can get more help from a simple little book called The Magic of Making Up by T "Dub" Jackson. This step by step guide has helps many. See a short video that will inspire you that it can be done. Start Now

Here's to second chances.

Wanda Ramos